Looking for the name of a self help book. The book begins with the author storytelling how his son had some sort of accident and how he comforted him and connected with his son by basically communicating something like “I know it hurts” not by “denying the pain” and also by keeping the kid’s mind busy and helping him focus on the present.
maybe: Crash: A Mother, A Son, And The Journey From Grief To Gratitude
Book by Carolyn Roy-Bornstein