I am looking for a 90s or 80s book where a teen is writing an advice column for school and no one knows she is the one giving advice. She receives a letter about one of her best friends who dresses almost always in black from a boy (Bucky??) who likes the friend. She is conflicted about the advice to give because she would tell someone else to go for it but she knows her friend would not be interested.
It’s been a LONG time since I read it, but I thought of ‘Dear Lovey Hart, I Am Desperate’ by Ellen Conford.