Only thing I remember it was a female protagonist, she had a dagger that had to have blood, it would force her to kill someone or cut herself. There were butterflies that were actually demons. I”m pretty sure it was from the early 80’s or late 70’s. Hopefully you’ll be able to help me with this. Thanks.
There are some similarities with ‘Six of swords’ by Douglas, Carole Nelson.
Not convinced it’s a match, but perhaps worth a look?